Online dating, singles events, and matchmaking services like
speed dating may prove successful and enjoyable for some people, but for many
they lack any kind of spontaneity and often feel more like high-pressure job
interviews than fun social occasions. And whatever dating experts might tell
you, there is a big difference between finding the right career and finding
lasting love.
Think of your time as a single person as a great opportunity to
meet new people, expand your social circle, and participate in new events.
Instead of scouring dating sites or hanging out in pick-up bars, find and
participate in activities that interest you. You don’t have to be the life of
the party or the star of the team, but just by putting yourself in a new environment
it's likely you'll meet new people who share similar interests. Even if you
don’t meet that special someone, you will still have enjoyed yourself and maybe
forged new friendships.
Ø Volunteer for a favorite charity, animal shelter,
or political campaign. Or even try a volunteer vacation (for details see
Resources section below).
Ø Take an extension class at a local college or
university.
Ø Sign up for dance classes, cooking classes, or
art classes.
Ø Join a running club, hiking group, cycling
group, or sports team.
Ø Join a theater group, film group, or attend a
panel discussion at a museum.
Ø Find a local book group or photography club.
Ø Attend local food and wine tasting events or
art gallery openings.
Ø Be creative: Write a list of activities
available in your area and, with your eyes closed, randomly put a pin in one,
even if it’s something you would never normally consider. How about pole
dancing, origami, or lawn bowling? Getting out of your comfort zone can be
rewarding in itself.
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