It's important to be aware of red-flag
behaviors that may indicate a relationship is not going to lead to healthy,
lasting love. In such cases, it's better to cut your losses early, rather than
invest time in a relationship that isn't good for you or them. Trust your
instincts and pay close attention to how the other person makes you feel. If
you tend to feel insecure, ashamed, or undervalued, it may be time to
reconsider the relationship.
Common relationship red flags:
Ø The relationship is
alcohol dependent. You only communicate well laugh, talk, make love when one or
both of you are under the influence of alcohol or other substances.
Ø There’s trouble making
a commitment. For some people commitment is much more difficult than others.
It's harder for them to trust others or to understand the benefits of a
long-term relationship because of previous experiences or an unstable home life
growing up.
Ø Nonverbal
communication is off. Instead of wanting to connect with you, the other person’s
attention is on other things like his or her phone or the TV.
Ø Jealousy about outside
interests. One partner doesn’t like the other spending time with friends
and family members outside the relationship.
Ø Controlling behavior. There is a desire on
the part of one person to control the other, stop him or her from having
independent thoughts and feelings.
Ø The relationship is
exclusively sexual. There is no interest in the other person other than a physical
interest. A meaningful and fulfilling relationship depends on more than just
good sex.
Ø No one-on-one time. One partner only wants
to be with the other as part of a group of people. If there’s no desire to
spend quality time alone with you, outside of the bedroom, it can signify a
greater issue.
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